The Love Notes Jar: A Simple, Powerful, Gratitude Practice for Couples

Love jar note ideas + things to write in a love jar. Beautiful gratitude practice for couples that also makes a great anniversary gift idea. #love #grateful #blessed #together

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
— Lao Tzu

One of my most thoughtful friends came up with this Love Notes Jar idea, which is a beautiful gratitude practice for couples to do together, or turn into a special Valentine's or anniversary gift. 

Couples who share gratitude together, stay together.

By sharing gratitude with your partner, I promise it will open up a new positive channel of conversation within your relationship, along with reminding you of all the reasons you fell in love with each other in the first place.

The main reason I created a Gratitude Journal that has TWO blank pages for each day, is so you can share in this beautiful practice with someone.

I personally think practicing gratitude with another person is one of the most powerful things you can do to uplift and transform BOTH your lives.

I hope you enjoy the following gratitude practice for couples. It’s one of my favorites!

The Love Notes Jar Instructions

1. Get a jar.

My friend used a simple love notes jar she found on Amazon. 

You could also just use a plain jar with a note describing what's contained inside the jar.


2. Cut up little slips of paper in three different colors.

My friend used red, yellow, and green - but you can use whatever colors are your favorite or have on hand. 

Designate a paper color to go with each statement:

Red paper: Things I love about you.

Green paper: Special memories we've shared.

Yellow paper: Hopes for our future together.

Write your notes, fold them in half, and put inside the jar.

She said many of her notes were really simple, just a sentence or two, for each.

3. Share it with your partner.

There are several ways to share this practice with your partner:

  • You both could do this practice together for 30 days and write your three love notes each day, sharing them aloud with your partner as you complete them.

  • Or, you could do this practice yourself and give it to your partner as a gift like my friend did. 

How to create a keepsake jar of Love Notes ❤︎

Either way is powerful. 

But do share this practice with your partner in whatever way feels best for the both of you, because it will help you gain the maximum benefits of this practice.

As the old Swedish proverb says:

Happiness shared, is happiness doubled.
— Swedish Proverb

Rewrite your love story

I remember reading years ago couples who told "positive" relationship stories about themselves stayed together longer and were significantly happier than couples who told negative stories.

This is a simple way to tell your story in a positive light.

My guess is that once you do this practice with your partner it will open them up to remembering their own special memories of you, memories you may have forgotten that will only add to your love story.

And by focusing on your hopes for the future you'll ensure your love story continues for many years to come.

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